Relationships

So I guess I should write a little about relationships, since that is one of those things that goes with a family. Relationships, lots and lot so them. You have a relationship with you child, with God, with all the people you meet that care for your child. The type of relationship I am going to talk about though is a relationship that you have with your husband, boyfriend, significant other...whatever you call them. First, I will share a short version of my story. THEN I will share my opinion. My husband and I began dating on June 1st 2007. I was dating his best friend before that so I was around him a lot. We sort of started getting close since we lived next to each other, rode the same bus, and had the same phone service so we could talk for free. Long story short we got together. Shortly after, we decided to have a Baby. We started trying in October of that same year. Don't ask why, neither of us had even had sex with anyone else, let alone tried to start a family. Be it as it may, we got pregnant in December or 2007 and I found out the next month. Life, somehow, seemed to get better at the same time as it got worse. He moved in April of 2008 when I was 4 months pregnant. We went to fighting a bit more, but nothing serious. We have always been that way. Anybody who says that they love someone and they never fight is a LIAR. L-I-A-R...Liar! Anyway, after the Baby was born, we still fought, and guess what...We still fight. He has never left. Although, we have come close one time and it was over a life changing experience that we had both just gone through. The stress was just too much and we began to resent each other for all that was going on. Anyway, here is where my opinion comes in and I am assuming I am about to make a ton of people very mad. OPINION: I do not believe that two people can love each other at their most until they have been through it all. I haven't even been through it all, but I do know that I probably don't Love him at my MOST. And one day I will, but you can't build a relationship purely out of Love. There has to be something there. Some effort-some communication-and some experience. You must LEARN to fall in Love with one another. You can Love anyone, but it takes something special and some learning to be able to Live With, Love, and Marry someone.